It’s a known fact that stress and emotional upheavals are part and parcel of pregnancy. The hormones of pregnancy are attributed to these mood swings. Stress has been part of our lives and from the times of our parents and grandparents, most would agree they have multiplied manifold. Whether it is to get a deadline met professionally, work pressures, getting a kid to school, pick up and drop routines or just the humdrum of fast-paced everyday living, stresses are real.
The death of a family member or friend, divorce, losing your job, financial problems, health issues, abuse or depression are unusual stresses, a bit removed from those of everyday life. Other disasters like natural calamities and in recent times, the monster of the COVID 19 pandemic are other chronic depressive events. And the latter has definitely increased, affecting everyone, especially pregnant and lactating girls.
What effects does this stress cause on pregnant girls?
Stress causes the body to be in a constant state of “ fight and flight”. It causes the hormones epinephrine and norepinephrine to be released. This causes you to have chronic headaches, trouble sleeping or eating disorders. It aggravates medical conditions like Gestational diabetes or Hypertension. And it also causes problems for your baby.
During the COVID pandemic, most pregnant girls have fears of contracting the disease. They fear hospitalisation and intensive care; many of them fear for their unborn babies, of miscarriages, bleeding, preterm deliveries, growth-restricted or low birth weight babies and many unfounded but completely understandable fears. Add to this the stress of being closeted at home and financial difficulties due to the economic effects of the pandemic.
What effects do stresses have on your child?
While some stresses are good for us and keep us on our toes, chronic stress like that of the current seemingly never-ending pandemic increases problems for the unborn baby as well. It is known to cause issues like preterm deliveries and low birth weight babies. This stress is also known to cause changes in temperament and neurobehavioral development problems in your babies. Some studies have also been found to show a likely association between stress in the pregnant mom and children who grow up to have heart disease, high BP, Diabetes, Learning disabilities. Some trials have also shown that stresses in the first trimester are particularly harmful and can lead to irritability and depression in children born to these mothers.
Remember that a womb is a busy place. There are numerous hormones and chemicals that are being transmitted from the mom to the baby. The stress hormones act on the babies, keeping them in constant fight and flight mode; that is why we are drawn back to the age-old concept of “ Garbh Sanskar”-our babies are very much what we make them in the womb. Stressed mothers are likely to get stressed babies. So despite all our fears, we need to try and find ways and means of countering them.
How do pregnant girls counter stress in COVID times?
Eat healthy, exercise, sleep adequately, keep yourself occupied doing things that calm you, keep you engaged and happy. Yoga and meditation are always helpful. Dissociate yourself from negative influences like people who spread fear, too much television or news of the pandemic; remember its good to be informed but harmful to be stressed and fearful. COVID appropriate behaviour like masking up, maintaining social distancing, avoiding crowded places, hand hygiene and COVID vaccination is our best bet today even against highly mutated forms of the virus.
The Pandemic will eventually pass or phase out into an endemic like the common flu but stress and fear will live on through your children.
So mommies, stay positive and just chill- this too shall pass!
